Dude, relax. Why would you get so pissed off at Nessie? Big deal if he asked about choosing a spinning combo YEARS ago. It's kind of sad that you would use an ad hominem attack in an attempt to invalidate his advice like that.
Maybe you can't toss your baitcasters without any breaks, but it's an inductive argument to apply that to everybody else (more logical fallacies). How does being friends with "serious" tournament bass pros make your opinion more valid, and how do you define "serious"? Let's hear some names, and a little info to validate your claim. Also, just because you're somebody's friend doesn't mean you're their equal in one skill set. Yet another inductive argument on your part.
You actually have a few lines of decent info with regards to the mechanical aspect of the reel. The only thing I'd add is to not adjust the screws too much in case they come loose while the reel is in use.
The last part of your argument really is a matter of opinion. No spool tension works for you, but I think the guy might want to try a combination of the two since he's never used a baitcaster before. Since you've been using baitcasters for 20yrs, you've got a lot more experience with controlling the spool with your thumb. He doesn't, so the mechanical aid will help a lot.
Lastly, you ironically hit the nail on the head with "ego driven bullshit." Your argument above was the same "ego driven bullshit" that you accused Nessie of. Congrats.